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What to Do When a Senior Loved One Can No Longer Safely Drive

Are you starting to worry when Mom or Dad is behind the wheel? You’re not alone — driving is a common concern for many families as loved ones grow older. 

Because every senior is different, there’s no one-size-fits-all age for stopping driving. Health, vision, hearing, mobility, and cognitive function can all impact someone’s ability to drive. This can make it difficult to determine the right moment to have a conversation about “giving up the keys.” 

Knowing what to look for can help you understand when it’s time to speak up. 

Warning Signs of Unsafe Driving: 

  • Difficulty staying in the correct lane 
  • Trouble with parking, turning, and backing up
  • Anxiety about driving at night 
  • New or frequent dents, dings, scrapes on the car or garage doors, mailboxes, etc. 
  • Difficulty gauging distances between vehicles 
  • Mobility challenges, such as moving between foot pedals or turning to check blind spots 
  • Driving too fast or too slow
  • Getting lost or confused in familiar areas
  • Delayed response time to unexpected situations
  • Mixing up the gas and brake pedals
  • Difficulty reading, noticing, or obeying road signs 
  • Comments from neighbors, friends, or family members about unsafe driving
  • Increased traffic tickets or warnings
  • Crashes or near misses

If you notice one or more of these signs in your loved one, the next step is to sit them down for a caring and thoughtful conversation. 

How to Have “The Talk” About a Loved One’s Driving

Most older adults greatly value the independence of driving. The idea of stopping or limiting their driving can feel like losing a part of their identity and self-sufficiency. 

That’s why it’s so important to approach the conversation with respect and empathy. Here are some tips: 

  1. Start early — If you can, start the conversation as early as possible. Discussing future plans can make decisions feel less sudden and confusing.
  2. Share your concerns with love — Gently explain the changes you’ve seen without blaming or accusing. Sharing specific examples or patterns you’ve noticed can help them understand the issue. You might also consider asking their doctor to weigh in and provide clarity.
  3. Be patient — It’s normal for older adults to feel angry, frustrated, or sad about the loss of driving in their lives. Validate their feelings and give them space to process this change. 

Willow Brook Companions Services’ offers transportation to local stores, appointments, and more. 

Navigating the Road Ahead: Is It Time for Senior Living?

If your loved one is no longer able to drive safely, it could also indicate they need more support overall.

Driving difficulties can arise alongside other challenges at home, like managing medications or finances, preparing healthy meals, keeping up with household chores, or feeling socially isolated.

Joining a senior living community can provide the hassle-free lifestyle your loved one needs to truly enjoy their retirement years. At Willow Brook’s communities, residents gain access to convenient amenities and services designed to make daily life easier, including transportation to local stores, appointments, and community events. They can also enjoy chef-prepared meals each day and take advantage of laundry, linen, and housekeeping services.

With everyday chores and tasks taken care of, your loved one will have more time to spend on the hobbies and activities they love, experiencing independence in new and meaningful ways. It’s retirement, reimagined. 

Ready to Learn More?

If you’re beginning to worry about your senior loved one’s safety behind the wheel or at home, now is the perfect time to explore the options.

Contact us today to learn more about Willow Brook’s senior living communities in the Columbus, Ohio, area. We’d be happy to provide a tour of our beautiful living spaces, answer your questions, and help you and your family find greater peace of mind. 

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